Week 335

  • The most notable thing about this week was that I gave my notice at Netlify after just over 2 years.
  • People assume you quit because you’re mad or something went wrong, but sometimes it’s really just that you’re leaving because you feel like you’ve done what you can and want to do something else more now (more on that another day). That’s where I am and that’s OK.
  • Netlify was my first true VC-startup experience as a full-timer. I learned a lot about how these sorts of companies work (partially because I’ve been able to have a good friendship with the founders and they’ve been very transparent with me about the mechanics) and it’s been very insightful. I think I lucked out with the team being so great more than anything, though.
  • Netlify taught me that I really like being a “fixer” moreso than having a stable, predictable, workload. Like, throw me any random operational problem and I will figure out how to solve it or do it or figure out who should do it. The generalist nature of doing that when a company is still small is really fun.
  • I don’t know what that job is when a company gets bigger, but I’d be interested to find out if someone knows.
  • Other than that bombshell, I went to a Sketchfest show for the 20th anniversary of Galaxy Quest. Very good.
  • Saw 1917. Not really a war movie fan, but unsurprisingly for a Mendes movie, it’s more of a character drama than an action flick. I found it very gripping and it’s wonderfully made.
  • We had a shinnenkai party at my ikebana group.
  • By the way, I’m now a grade 5 ikenobo ikebanist which means I can be a teacher’s assistant*.
  • *This basically means being allowed to clean up leaves and nothing else, tbh.

Week 334

2020!

  • Took two weeks off for Christmas and New Years and it started decently but I’m on day 10 of a winter cold.
  • Christmas dinner this year was hosted by a friend and was extremely vegetarian. Mushroom pie, potato pavé, couscous, hummus, fancy labneh, sous vide parsnips, and many other things. Extremely successful.
  • Saw Star Wars IX. It’s like, actually decent in terms of an entertaining thing to watch for a couple hours. Obviously, you can’t think too hard about the details, because a lot of it doesn’t make sense (Who built all those ships? Where did the staffing come from? Why did what’s-his-face wait until she had all her powers to pick her up, rather than grab her while she was solo-running around junk yards?).
  • Relatedly, I read a few extracts from The Princess Diarist which sort of puts a dreamy but sad reality check on the original movies. I hadn’t really ever thought about how young Carrie Fisher was then.
  • Did nothing for new year’s eve (see previous note about cold) but it turns out that if you stand on the very top of our backyard deck shelf thing, you can see the SF fireworks all the way downtown.
  • Apparently fireworks are actually super bad for the environment so we should probably stop doing them, generally.

Week 331

  • Doing well on the “do some exercise every day” thing. I’ve been able to fit in some Switch Fitness Boxing for 18 days in a row (bar one, the election day… I just couldn’t bring myself to do something nice).
  • I’m very weak but I’m now scoring better on the fitness games, so maybe becoming less so?
  • I wrote an article for 24ways about mobile web users. It’s actually my second article for 24ways – I wrote another about documentation approximately 1 million years ago.
  • From the library, I read The Girl With All The Gifts (yes, I’ve seen the movie) and Lies, Incorporated. The former is quite good and I’ve got The Boy On The Bridge, set in the same universe, to follow-up with. The latter, well, I had read The Unteleported Man at some point in the past and didn’t realise this was the “complete” version of that story with the mad LSD trip in the middle until after I’d finished it. It’s… confusing.
  • My boss asked me to read The Advantage which is a bit of a haha business book, but I might learn a thing, so I also snagged that from the library.

Week 329

In to the home straight of 2019.

It has been 15 weeks since my last week notes and in that time I…

  • went to London with Dave Guarino, then Bucharest and Amsterdam with Alex.
  • went to a bunch of conferences (Fronteers, JSCampRO, JAMStack San Francisco, Chrome Dev Summit) and generally hung out with more nerds than I have for a while. Probably don’t need to go to anymore for a year or two, tbh.
  • hired some very wonderful new folks at work that start in the new year for the front-end team.
  • created a “life hack” that consists of using android’s “focus mode” as a way to turn off all work related apps on my phone after 5pm. The mode is supposed to be used to turn off all the fun things you do on your phone, but actually it’s not the fun things that are the problem – it’s mostly Slack chipping slowly away at the last of my sanity that I need to do away with.
  • got a library card! I think that means I’m a local now. I don’t know if this exists back home in the UK, but here you can rent e-books from your local library and read them on your kindle for free without ever having to actually go to an actual library. It’s brilliant, but I’m curious about how Amazon is taking advantage of this otherwise very friendly social feature.
  • got Switch Ring Adventure, which looks completely stupid, but it’s REALLY hard and I’ve been using muscles that I’ve definitely never used before. It’s much harder than the Switch Fit Boxing that I’ve been doing so far (and this month I’m challenging myself to do one or the other every single day in December).

Week 312 / 6 years

My San Franiversary was this last week, so it must be week 312 or so.

6 years! That flew by. Some summaries and findings:

  • San Francisco still sucks. I actively dislike the “city”. It’s really small and badly designed, lacks the proper transit network a real city would have and refuses to build anything new so that people can actually find homes. It literally smells bad (either pot or pee) and the insane disparity between the mega rich and the super poor on the streets is actively depressing, and everyone works in tech. I continue to look forward to the day I can leave.
  • On the plus side, I am very fortunate – Alex and I found the perfect place for us in Bernal where I can hang out with the wild birds and breathe the fresh foggy air. I have a good job and good friends, curiously made up largely of Canadians with a few Aussies and Japanese folks thrown in there.
  • I’ve made almost no close American friends who weren’t immigrants in someway before they got here.
  • I have resisted learning how to drive – or rather, I did try to learn to drive a couple of summers back (I know how to operate a car, but I did not pass a test) but I discovered I hate it and don’t understand how people can operate heavy vehicles at speed. It’s terrifying. The over-under is I still can’t legally drive and it’s made me a nervous passenger. I continue to hope that the Bay is the kind of place that’ll get autonomous cars early.
  • I got my US citizenship and I’m looking forward to my first general election voting opportunity next year.
  • I really miss a proper selection of crisps, biscuits and M&S sandwiches. If you ever visit me, the room & board will cost you a packet of Walker’s prawn cocktail and some chocolate bourbons.

Week 310 / Norway

Snuck up into the 300s while I wasn’t paying attention. For those new here, the weeks are the number of weeks since I emigrated to the USA. The idea being that one day I’ll un-emigrate and I’ll have known how many weeks I’ve spent in the mad place.

We’re just leaving Norway right now – a much less mad place that is over 98% powered by hydro energy whilst it’s main export is oil.

Alex wanted to come and see the midnight sun, and so far we have seen the actual sun only once in Oslo. It has been daylight the whole time though and boy, that’s awful on the jet lag. Nice people, nice place, though. It’s a bit like IRL Skyrim.

I finished reading “Why We Sleep” by Dr Matthew Walker. Super fascinating overview of the scientific literature on how and why we sleep and dream as well as the ramifications of not sleeping enough. It’s a really refreshing view and the antithesis of the typical silicon valley attitude to rest vs working as much as humanely possible. This quote caught my eye regarding a gene they’ve found that seems to allow some folks to do just fine on less than 6 hours sleep (exactly the kind of thing every tech CEO claims):

Having learned this, I imagine that some readers now believe that they are one of these individuals. That is very, very unlikely. The gene is remarkably rare, with but a soupçon of individuals in the world estimated to carry this anomaly. To impress this fact further, I quote one of my research colleagues, Dr. Thomas Roth at the Henry Ford Hospital in Detroit, who once said, “The number of people who can survive on five hours of sleep or less without any impairment, expressed as a percent of the population, and rounded to a whole number, is zero.”

I’m now reading “Who Goes There? by John W Campbell Jr. It’s better know by it’s movie name: The Thing.

Week 287 / older

I had a birthday. That was pretty good. I think of myself as a person with not many friends, but the ones I do have are pretty top notch. Jake came to town, and brought me 21 cans of Heinz Baked Beans from London, for one, and I was given some really lovely cards (including a handmade bird one from Monica) and various odd objects including my first pitcher plant from Dana. I’m really very lucky.

I wasn’t joking.

On the flip side, I also did my first work meeting cry. Frustration is frustrating and I mention it in the same vein as Alice’s weaknote mentions of crying in that it’s kind of normal and just happens sometimes.

While we had visitors, we finally got around to visiting Flora Grubb Gardens which is basically my dream garden and I got a weird coral-looking plant. Adding the general vibe to my “when I retire” list of things to do. It’s a combi-nursery and coffee shop and twee as anything and if it wasn’t in a particularly shitty area of San Francisco, it would be perma-mobbed.

Japanese class continues to be quite challenging, but I’m powering through. Last week I learned to say where things are in relation to other things and this week I did a really bad job at deconstructing provided answers to derive the probable question asked. Japanese counters can also jump off a cliff.

Some additional random things:

  • I got a new quantified-self-type toy. An Oura ring. Giving it a couple of weeks before I declare it naff or not, but it is a bit chunky and generous with its step counts.
  • Finally listened to the podcast Alex recorded about PWAs. It’s good but I had to laugh that it had to be split into two parts. Very on brand.
  • Talking of podcasts, The Dream is pretty thorough if you’ve ever wondered about MLMs and Dirty John for the more personal con. I love a good scam story. For the more visual experience, the Ted Bundy series on Netflix is unsurprisingly great.

Week 285 / all-hands

Couple days late, but I’m just now somewhere I can do my weeknotes. The week before I was taken out by a particularly viscious/viscous cold and spent a majority of my time in bed.

This week was our company all-hands and had us all down in Santa Cruz for a couple nights and doing stuff back in SF for the rest.

It was really good fun and actually a really good way to start the working year off. I ate a lot, drank, and stayed up too many nights so I’m very grateful that tomorrow (Monday, MLK) is a day off for us.

I got to meet a lot of my product team face to face for the first time, as well, so that was pretty rad.

I also started Japanese lessons this week. I’m taking Beginning 2 at the Japan Society and needless to say I am RUSTY (I last took a Japanese class in 2004) and the first class was brutal (it was a review class to see what we knew and blimey…). I’ve got homework for next week and I think I’ll be OK. Ikebana classes have started back up so I’ll have somewhere to practice.

Things I’ve learned this week:

  • It’s important to clarify with your boss who is giving the company roadmap talk multiple times before the scheduled session.
  • I’m capable of making a slide deck in 10 minutes and giving an ad-libbed roadmap talk.

Week 282 / Hong Kong

One of my more bourgeois week notes this time, but I’m currently sat in the Cathay Pacific first lounge in Hong Kong waiting for our flight home.

We just finished up a really lovely Christmas trip to HK. My first time here and Alex’s second. We ate a lot of good food, saw a very big Buddha and did a lot of uphill wandering.

Alex in his dim sum element

I walked about 50 miles total over the last 7 days.

Happy 2018. See you next year!

Week 280

I’m in the kitchen at work mourning the loss of my intern. She’s not dead or anything, but today is her last day and we’re all very sad about this fact.

I also just got back from a trip to London to visit the family for an early Christmas-ish type trip. London is good for sparkly lights, mince pies, fancy dinners and having breakfast at the next table over from George Lucas!

Just before I left, I was gifted a copy of Public Digital‘s new little bright yellow magazine, Signals (thank you, Ben!). Still working through it. It’s a collection of short pieces of writing by various people about working the public sector.

Very yellow

On Wednesday, I had possibly the most wholesome holiday party, ever – a semi-competitive flower-arranging game and sake with my ikebana class. I forgot to take a picture, but needless to say everyone was a winner.