My San Franiversary was this last week, so it must be week 312 or so.
6 years! That flew by. Some summaries and findings:
San Francisco still sucks. I actively dislike the “city”. It’s really small and badly designed, lacks the proper transit network a real city would have and refuses to build anything new so that people can actually find homes. It literally smells bad (either pot or pee) and the insane disparity between the mega rich and the super poor on the streets is actively depressing, and everyone works in tech. I continue to look forward to the day I can leave.
On the plus side, I am very fortunate – Alex and I found the perfect place for us in Bernal where I can hang out with the wild birds and breathe the fresh foggy air. I have a good job and good friends, curiously made up largely of Canadians with a few Aussies and Japanese folks thrown in there.
I’ve made almost no close American friends who weren’t immigrants in someway before they got here.
I have resisted learning how to drive – or rather, I did try to learn to drive a couple of summers back (I know how to operate a car, but I did not pass a test) but I discovered I hate it and don’t understand how people can operate heavy vehicles at speed. It’s terrifying. The over-under is I still can’t legally drive and it’s made me a nervous passenger. I continue to hope that the Bay is the kind of place that’ll get autonomous cars early.
I got my US citizenship and I’m looking forward to my first general election voting opportunity next year.
I really miss a proper selection of crisps, biscuits and M&S sandwiches. If you ever visit me, the room & board will cost you a packet of Walker’s prawn cocktail and some chocolate bourbons.
Snuck up into the 300s while I wasn’t paying attention. For those new here, the weeks are the number of weeks since I emigrated to the USA. The idea being that one day I’ll un-emigrate and I’ll have known how many weeks I’ve spent in the mad place.
We’re just leaving Norway right now – a much less mad place that is over 98% powered by hydro energy whilst it’s main export is oil.
Alex wanted to come and see the midnight sun, and so far we have seen the actual sun only once in Oslo. It has been daylight the whole time though and boy, that’s awful on the jet lag. Nice people, nice place, though. It’s a bit like IRL Skyrim.
I finished reading “Why We Sleep” by Dr Matthew Walker. Super fascinating overview of the scientific literature on how and why we sleep and dream as well as the ramifications of not sleeping enough. It’s a really refreshing view and the antithesis of the typical silicon valley attitude to rest vs working as much as humanely possible. This quote caught my eye regarding a gene they’ve found that seems to allow some folks to do just fine on less than 6 hours sleep (exactly the kind of thing every tech CEO claims):
Having learned this, I imagine that some readers now believe that they are one of these individuals. That is very, very unlikely. The gene is remarkably rare, with but a soupçon of individuals in the world estimated to carry this anomaly. To impress this fact further, I quote one of my research colleagues, Dr. Thomas Roth at the Henry Ford Hospital in Detroit, who once said, “The number of people who can survive on five hours of sleep or less without any impairment, expressed as a percent of the population, and rounded to a whole number, is zero.”
I’m now reading “Who Goes There? by John W Campbell Jr. It’s better know by it’s movie name: The Thing.
I had a birthday. That was pretty good. I think of myself as a person with not many friends, but the ones I do have are pretty top notch. Jake came to town, and brought me 21 cans of Heinz Baked Beans from London, for one, and I was given some really lovely cards (including a handmade bird one from Monica) and various odd objects including my first pitcher plant from Dana. I’m really very lucky.
On the flip side, I also did my first work meeting cry. Frustration is frustrating and I mention it in the same vein as Alice’s weaknote mentions of crying in that it’s kind of normal and just happens sometimes.
While we had visitors, we finally got around to visiting Flora Grubb Gardens which is basically my dream garden and I got a weird coral-looking plant. Adding the general vibe to my “when I retire” list of things to do. It’s a combi-nursery and coffee shop and twee as anything and if it wasn’t in a particularly shitty area of San Francisco, it would be perma-mobbed.
Japanese class continues to be quite challenging, but I’m powering through. Last week I learned to say where things are in relation to other things and this week I did a really bad job at deconstructing provided answers to derive the probable question asked. Japanese counters can also jump off a cliff.
Some additional random things:
I got a new quantified-self-type toy. An Oura ring. Giving it a couple of weeks before I declare it naff or not, but it is a bit chunky and generous with its step counts.
Finally listened to the podcastAlex recorded about PWAs. It’s good but I had to laugh that it had to be split into two parts. Very on brand.
Talking of podcasts, The Dream is pretty thorough if you’ve ever wondered about MLMs and Dirty John for the more personal con. I love a good scam story. For the more visual experience, the Ted Bundy series on Netflix is unsurprisingly great.
Couple days late, but I’m just now somewhere I can do my weeknotes. The week before I was taken out by a particularly viscious/viscous cold and spent a majority of my time in bed.
This week was our company all-hands and had us all down in Santa Cruz for a couple nights and doing stuff back in SF for the rest.
It was really good fun and actually a really good way to start the working year off. I ate a lot, drank, and stayed up too many nights so I’m very grateful that tomorrow (Monday, MLK) is a day off for us.
I got to meet a lot of my product team face to face for the first time, as well, so that was pretty rad.
I also started Japanese lessons this week. I’m taking Beginning 2 at the Japan Society and needless to say I am RUSTY (I last took a Japanese class in 2004) and the first class was brutal (it was a review class to see what we knew and blimey…). I’ve got homework for next week and I think I’ll be OK. Ikebana classes have started back up so I’ll have somewhere to practice.
Things I’ve learned this week:
It’s important to clarify with your boss who is giving the company roadmap talk multiple times before the scheduled session.
I’m capable of making a slide deck in 10 minutes and giving an ad-libbed roadmap talk.
I’m in the kitchen at work mourning the loss of my intern. She’s not dead or anything, but today is her last day and we’re all very sad about this fact.
I also just got back from a trip to London to visit the family for an early Christmas-ish type trip. London is good for sparkly lights, mince pies, fancy dinners and having breakfast at the next table over from George Lucas!
Just before I left, I was gifted a copy of Public Digital‘s new little bright yellow magazine, Signals (thank you, Ben!). Still working through it. It’s a collection of short pieces of writing by various people about working the public sector.
On Wednesday, I had possibly the most wholesome holiday party, ever – a semi-competitive flower-arranging game and sake with my ikebana class. I forgot to take a picture, but needless to say everyone was a winner.
This last two weeks felt long. I don’t remember why I missed week notes last week, but I am betting it was something to do with being asleep.
Chrome Dev Summit was both good (PWA book!) and bad (yay, sexism, again!). It was a particularly excellent week for seeing people I like a lot because they all had to come to the event for work, though. We forced many of them to visit our home for brunch.
California caught fire, again. It’s really extremely sad, so I don’t even think I should be allowed to complain that the ashes of people’s lives, homes and businesses raining down on San Francisco were a reason I had to stay inside for 5 days straight.
Our friends from England working on Poplar came to visit and we had a really fun and interesting evening talking about their work over at Stamen HQ.
Two thirds of Poplar went on a jaunt with Alex and I to Stinson beach.
It’s Thanksgiving and this year I am thankful for not having to go anywhere or see anyone and being allowed to play Fallout 76.
Missed a week due to being on a plane to Long Beach for a wedding. The way I’ve been managing to do week notes again is by literally putting a 15 minute placeholder in my calendar so nothing gets scheduled over it, in a time I’m usually free, which obviously fails when I’m not.
In the last couple weeks we had our big company sponsored event – JAMstack_conf. I am generally kind of exhausted and bored by a lot of events these days (that’s a me problem rather than a problem with events), but I found this one very invigorating and not just because we were hosting. There’s something really fresh, and yet old-skool, going on with the JAMstack – people making sites that are best for the platform and that work really well on the open web – feels like the same wave that’s causing everyone to start publishing back to their own sites and blogs again. I love it.
I’ve also done two of my civic duties as an American this week – I voted in the midterms and I did jury duty! Sadly, I didn’t actually get called in for a court case. Maybe next time.
Mostly, though, I have been playing Red Dead Redemption 2. 36% complete.
It is week 273, which will be forever known as the week that I finally got my first ikenobo ikebana diplomas. I’m like a legit flower arranger now. My name will be forever in some 500 year old ledger somewhere in Kyoto.
I got a new phone, which is literally the most exciting thing that happened this week, so take of that what you will. It’s a Pixel 3, so of course, the main thing is having to retrain my thumb to do whichever arbitrary change their UI designers have made to task switching. This time, it’s removing the whole button. Joy. Also, turns out some folks don’t know that you can control a lot of things about Chrome by using chrome://flags – like, for example, getting rid of the bloody news feed and recent bookmarks. I do like the wireless charging, though, this feels closer to the future I was promised.
I picked up a book a couple of weeks ago about felting (it’s in Japanese, I can’t read it). I’m not intending to get into felting – I simply bought it because the photos were so cute – but then I accidentally bought some felting wool. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯